Ifs and What ifs....

those who know me better know 2 principles i stick to during conversations
1. i don't answer hypothetical questions - meaning don't ask me "if" questions esp when it is an assumption of how things would be if decisions already made were made differently, or if the situation was different... basically, my principle is not to answer because it just gives rise to a chain of countless other "ifs"

2. i do not succumb to emotional blackmail. yup, dis is even more serious than the first, anytime someone try to pull dis one on me

don't know why these thoughts suddenly come to my mind... but tink i want to write them down anyway